It’s considered rude to ask the question “Did they smoke?” upon hearing someone has just been diagnosed with lung cancer. Does it matter? Why must we look to place blame? It doesn’t matter. No one deserves cancer. No one. Not the smoker. Not the non-smoker. Not the occasional social or stress smoker. And breast cancer? That’s a crapshoot. I know plenty of women who didn’t breast-feed and they are just fine and I know even more who did breast-feed and still got a ticket to ride in the chemo chair. No one deserves cancer. Not the women who didn’t breast feed or the woman who couldn’t breast feed or the president of the La Leche League. I desperately wanted to breast-feed. I knew the ‘breast is