"And I'm here to remind you of the mess you left when you went away. It's not fair, to deny me of the cross I bear that you gave to me. You, you, you ought to know." - Alanis Morissette, You Ought To Know " I live close to the beach, and most weekends from June through September you will find me with my toes in the sand, sitting at the water's edge either reading or writing. I adore the smell of the sea breeze laced with sunblock. I find peace watching the waves crash over the jetties. I even enjoy hearing the caw of the seagulls as they circle above waiting for the errant french fry or potato chip to land in the sand. When the air begins to chill and I realize that I'm spending more time on